PHYSICAL CONTROLS
Hitting, kicking, choking, pushing,
biting, restraining, slapping
Throwing things, destroying
valuables, abusing pets
Intimidating
Threatening
Subjecting to reckless driving,
abandoning in dangerous place
Uninvited visiting or calling,
not leaving when asked
Stalking or following
Rape (insisting, talking into,
coercing into uncomfortable sexual activity)
Isolating (preventing
partner from seeing or talking to friends or relatives)
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PSYCHOLOGICAL
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EMOTIONAL CONTROLS Criticizing (name-calling,
cursing, mocking, blaming)
Ridiculing partner's
values such as religion, race, heritage, gender
Interrupting,
changing topic, not listening
Not respecting
partner's opinions
Making her feel
sorry for him
Using money to
manipulate
Making all decisions
Withholding emotions
(not expressing feelings when appropriate, not giving praise, attention,
support, concern)
Ignoring partner's
feelings
Acting jealous,
accusing of cheating
Being moody, sulking
Playing mind
games
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